At a previous place of employment, we all tended to communicate via Microsoft Office Communicator. We would flash quick project questions, plan lunch, or just complain about the day with the person across the hall. I had one coworker that had a negative opinion about inviting another coworker to lunch, and as he went to share this opinion with another like-minded coworker, he accidentally sent it to the coworker in question. He acted quickly, got up, went to her computer and powered it down. We all got a good laugh out of this story and noted it as a lesson learned.
I have been a little stressed at work lately. There are a lot of projects kicking off and my impending maternity leave is just around the corner. It is hard to pass off projects that I love and scary to wonder what I will walk back into after 12 weeks off. I have this one coworker that just spikes my blood pressure with a simple email. He is that typical coworker that takes way more credit than he should, he knows how to do things one way, his way and does not have the technical chops to back up anything he proposes. He can talk the talk but not walk the walk. I tend to play the roll of team player, and he is the exact opposite. He is the soul reason I dread Mondays.
Most recently, I was taking the initiative to help with our staffing projections and workload issues. He took this as an opportunity to make this process his own, even though he hasn’t shown interest in the almost 2 years I have been here. He invited people to the meeting that had no business being there… I forwarded that email to a coworker, simply saying, “He is killing me.” Not understanding the complete functions of Office, I thought I had sent that to the entire group invited to the meeting. My heart sunk. What if he read it? How could I let my frustrations get the best of me? And what now…
Well he didn’t see it. He is still driving me crazy. However, it was a good lesson learned.